If the so called modern clothes are checked one thing will be certain, the amount of skin it covers for man and women will be different. More covering for man and less covering for women. Women are suggested to flaunt their curves in many a fashion articles. Everyone is trying their bit to look more beautiful. If beauty is only external, then the mindset will also be the same. What thinking takes inside the mind is not revealed to others and is kept secret.
The brain of male and female species are wired in different ways. The male can be sexually stimulated by visual things alone but it is the not the case in general with the females. Otherwise who want to look desirable by their lovers need not try hard to impress visually. We have seen umpteen number of ads where a girl is accepted after becoming more beautiful by using certain products. The efforts are always by the women to be accepted, but inorder to get more business male beauty products are also launched to attract women.
In the end, all the ads which are powerful communicators tell that the purpose is to attract the opposite sex. Then what after attraction is partially shown in our movies and what happens behind closed doors are in some manner are highlighted in movies. More detailed information is shown in pornographic movies. The effect of pornograpic movies is tremendous and many people believe it to be reality. The acts performed by porn stars are not possible by regular people, because the people in the porn industry are payed and its their job to perform. The people in the porn industry also lead a normal life with all the problems and sex is just their job.
A uninformed person watching porn will come to a conclusion that all women like to have sex and the variations of porn being unlimited, the mind thinks every women to be craving for sex and can be easily obtained. But people with some information know reality can hold themselves from going on raping others. But the question that remains unanswered is whether the pornography, movies, ads are the reasons for rape. The answer is still not known. All these industries are multi billion dollar worth and holding them to a set of rules is not possible for neither a citizen or the governments of respective countries.
The values instilled at a young age only can guide a person from becoming a rapist or any other kind of criminal. A saying in telugu tells "If a plant is not bent early on, it is not possible to bend it after it matures into a tree with a huge trunk." The preteen life of a person is critical because the basic character of the person forms and if no proper guidance is provided then we can hope for more of criminals amongst us.
If at all anyone has to be corrected then it is the responsibility of the soceity for having deviated from its principles has resulted in the sort of lives we live in, and blame at the weakest points. How to take on collective responsibility in a country like India where people in general like authority and not responsibility? If answer to this question is found, then golden age of India can be seen, and we can be a super power. Till then more of rape, corruption and other seasons will come and go.
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